Monday, November 30, 2020

Take Your Own Decisions ..!!!

 There are some decisions in life that we should take ourselves, because at times there are times in our life when we are not able to take a decision for ourselves and decide in others. The result of this is that we again regret for that decision all our lives. So today we are going to tell you some things whose decisions you should take by yourself, below are some decisions that we should take ourselves, what are the things we should do in life according to ourselves? 


It may be okay to depend on elders for important decisions, but not in every village. There are some tasks in life in which we have to take decisions ourselves without the advice of our parents, relatives and friends.

People do not know about the decisions related to these lives and they come in the words of others and decide according to the wishes of others and then they regret it throughout their life. There are some decisions in life, which we should take ourselves and why, we will tell you all about this in detail in this post.


1. Choice of your career :-


The biggest question in front of a student is, who should make his career? For this, he takes help of us, parents, friends, relatives and people who do not know. Suppose you have to do engineering and you ask questions about it to everyone, then people will tell you what they have experienced. 


Maybe their experience scares you and may make you retreat. Therefore, it is better that you think about what you have to do and what you do not, do not depend on others.


2. Listening to the heart :-


Our heart or our soul always shows us the right path but we do not listen to the heart. Whereas we should take the decision from our mind by listening to the words of others and if your mind also does not work then listen to the heart. 


We care more about other people than our lives. We always think "what people will say" just get lost in this turmoil and wander our way.


3. Proper use of energy :-


It often happens that whenever we start any work, we do it with a half heart and then people tell us wrong about you and we believe their words. 


For Example - people say "you will not be able to do this" and then thinking all this, we are unable to use our energy properly. As a result, we fail.


If you are doing such a thing, in which you are not getting happiness and you feel that your time and energy is getting wasted in it, then it should be left immediately. Do what you like. If you do the work of your choice, then you will be able to use all your energy in it and if you use all your energy, then it means that you will get success.


4. Be Self-Reliant :-


If you want to live a life of freedom and want to feel freedom, then it is important to have a self-dependent. When you will be dependent on someone else, they will join your life even if they don't want to.


It will happen that they will also give their opinion in your decisions and you will make wrong decisions because of them. So choose the right path and be a self-dependent.


5. keep yourself happy :-


The biggest truth of the world is that you cannot keep everyone happy. If you are trying to make everyone happy, then you are supporting someone somewhere in the wrong. Do not speak for others. When you succeed, the world will follow you. So please yourself and don't think of others excessively.


6. Do not waste time :-


It is a waste of both time and dreams to take approval from others. When you share your point with someone, they will listen then think on it and then reply after that. Therefore, do not waste your time at the behest of others nor waste your time to convince anyone. Until you achieve success, rest should be for you.


7. Your happiness is yours :-


It is not necessary for others to be happy in the work that you are happy to do. It is not necessary that others like what you like. Everyone's thinking is different here. So make a plan for yourself and keep going on them continuously. There may be some problems, but in the end the floor will be yours and it will be your hard work to reach it. All will be no happier for you than that happiness.


8. Identify yourself :-


Do not give anyone a chance to define you. Make a relationship with yourself and love yourself before forming a relationship with anyone. Try to understand yourself. This will happen only when you try to listen to your heart and mind by separating yourself from others for some time. You will not understand that you are the most special in the world. People do not know what you will say, but you have to take care that those who speak about you are not you. You are the one who never gives up.


9. Control your life yourself :-


We live life according to the wishes of others and the control button of our life is in the hands of others. We do the same thing that other people want us to do. It should not happen. Keep the control button of your life in your hand. When we start becoming more dependent on others, they try to control us. Then you are surrounded by questions like Do not do that, do not do that. So keep as much meaning as possible from others. Do not give them so much importance in your life that you are forced to do anything for them.


10. The final decision should be yours :-


It often happens that we think of starting a lot of things but then get advice from other people about it and then change our mind after listening to their negative things. You never have to do this. Yes, you run away from others, it is not wrong. But the final decision should be yours, which you have to take from your heart. 



In these 10 points mentioned in this article, you will always have to take decisions on your own or else you may regret 1 day. For example, a student chooses the wrong subject on the advice of others. He chooses a subject in which he has absolutely no interest. He got salute from others that after studying well, one can understand everything. But he understands this when the exam comes close. He then regrets the wrong decision taken by the advice of others and he thinks that I wish I had listened to my heart at that time. Therefore, you should always take decisions related to your progress in life. We do not mean to stop taking advice. Now do exactly this, but the decision should be yours.


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